With the rise of technology and social media, it’s so easy to stay connected with our friends. We have full access to text, share pictures, and even chat in online games whenever we want. Just like when we have learned to be kind and polite when we are sitting in class or playing at the park, it’s just as important to be kind online. Follow this guide to spread positivity and keep the internet a fun and happy place!
“Read It Out Loud” Rule
Whether you’re about to hit send on a text to a friend or about to post a comment on someone’s post online, remember to pause for a second and read it out loud to yourself. When we type, people can’t see our faces or hear how we are saying something. A sarcastic joke or quick comment could sound mean or grumpy over text, even if you didn’t mean it that way. Once you read it aloud, if it sounds hurtful or rude in any way, delete it and try saying it in a nicer way. Sometimes it’s even best to get another opinion– ask a friend or family member if your message comes across kindly before hitting post.
Think Before You Post
While it’s super fun to post pictures of our daily outfits, pets, or fun activities with friends, before you post a photo or a story about someone else, always ask yourself: “Would my friend want this online?” Sometimes friends don’t like pictures of themselves posted online, even if they look great. Respecting people’s privacy shows that you care about their feelings just as much as your own. Before posting someone else without their consent, just ask! The worst they can say is no, and if they do, just find something else to post and keep that picture or story private.
Bullying Online
Sometimes drama happens in group chats or online games, but if you see someone being called names or treated unfairly, you don’t have to join in or stay quiet. Be an upstander by privately checking in on that person and letting them know you are here for them. If a group chat gets mean or stressful, it’s totally okay to log off and take a break. You don’t have to be part of the negativity. If someone is being really mean online, always tell a parent or teacher so they can help. You can also report users on social media or online games, or even have a parent contact the specific site you’re on.
The Takeaway
Being a good digital citizen is all about treating others online the same way you want to be treated in real life. Remember to use your screens to lift others up, not tear them down.
